Church Leaders that are too scared to lead

Thom Rainer today provides a list of things that scare church leaders:

  1. Procrastination. Fearful leaders put off tasks for fear that they cannot do them well. They are experts at passive-aggressive behavior. They can receive an assignment to do a task, then “conveniently” forget to do it.
  2. Over analysis. Fearful leaders want to over-analyze every situation in an attempt to eliminate risk. They never stop analyzing because they never eliminate the risk. An organization built around fear will have an excess of analysts and policy wonks.
  3. A bias against actions outside the status quo. The status quo is the lone comfort place of a fearful leader. Get him or her beyond status quo, and the leader is often deemed ineffective. Though the fearful leader may avoid the overused, “We’ve never done it that way before,” he or she might say something similar like, “That’s really not the way we do it here.”
  4. Worry about critics. The fearful leader is a people pleaser. Critics can immobilize him or her. To use a sports metaphor, fearful leaders avoid decisions that might draw criticism because they play not to lose rather than playing to win.
  5. Reticent to show weaknesses or lack of knowledge. The fearful leader is an insecure person. He or she does not want to exhibit any weakness, even though he or she may have several. You will see the opposite trait exhibited in confident courageous leaders. They have no problems pointing out their own weaknesses and ignorance.
  6. Reticence to move people off the bus. No one should enjoy firing people. No one should enjoy telling a volunteer that he or she is no longer needed in a position. But for the sake of the organization, some people need to be moved off the bus. The fearful leader will let persons stay on the bus well beyond their effectiveness because they fear confrontation, and because they fear making a wrong decision.
  7. Failure to reinvent oneself. A fearful leader does not want their circumstances to change; that is why such leaders fiercely defend the status quo. Likewise, they don’t see any need for change in themselves. Courageous leaders are constantly reinventing themselves. Fearful leaders rarely improve their skill sets significantly.
  8. Obsession with details. Fearful leaders love to stay in the morass of insignificant details. Because the details are usually unimportant, it is difficult to make a mistake of consequence. Of course, it’s impossible to do anything of consequence when your focus is on those things that really don’t make a difference.

These 8 things will cause your effective leadership to come to a dead stop in many situations.

How many of these have you exhibited in the past (or now)?

How have you turned these around in your personal leadership?

Please do share below!

Read more from Thom Rainer on this subject here…

Todd

4 Comments

  • James Price May 13, 2013 Reply

    These are all good and well, but somewhere along the line of believing in a Sovereign God something hit there Faith and they stopped believing in there Sovereign God that He is in control of ALL things and He is Trustworthy and has unlimited power. They started focusing on there circumstances rather than God.

  • Amy Rosa May 13, 2013 Reply

    I love how #3 highlights the difference between having a mission & vision for your staff vs. hiding behind the fear of keeping status quo which you are comfortable with…I remember hearing that statement “That’s just not how we do things here…” Great article! Thank you for sharing!

  • nmcdonal May 13, 2013 Reply

    Thanks for putting these together, Todd.

  • kleimoladmkDale May 13, 2013 Reply

    Todd, now you’re getting personal! But thanks for the list; I ought to print it for future reference, but it will have to wait til tomorrow when I set out to reinvent myself.
    Seriously, thanks.

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